stength, confidence,... maturity..., and disposition

move forward and develop relationships - BE POSITIVE. We mustn't forget the adage on attitude and outward perception - you get what you focus on.

relieve yourself of the 'overly concerned' atitude and replace it with one of content, reconciliation, solace and calm.

try to be unselfish and see things from the perspective of others.

have the strength to deal with the daily trials of life, knowing that this too shall pass. Perhaps its easier to deal with certain issues knowing that much trouble is perceived and may be nothing directly related to you. If you are a snivelling, spineless, emotional wimp, your actions will be perceived as reflecting that attitude. There is strength in feeling good, but even more - it feels good to be strong. Others will sense the confidence in you.